Most men are loyal to their spouses, but there is always a certain percentage that feel the need to cheat. Whether this is due to an inactive love life, a strained relationship or just because it’s not in his nature to be monogamous, it is almost always devastating.
If you have suspicions, the following ways are to help you find out if your man is cheating on you:
Has his sex drive changed?
Men like to have sex, and most men in relationships take every opportunity they can to get their ladies in bed. If your man doesn’t seem to be interested in you anymore, it could be a sign that he is getting some on the side. Conversely, an over amorous man may have had his sex drive increased by seeing another woman. Look for signs such as a change in performance or the sudden need to “spice up” your love life-he may be trying to reenact sexual encounters he recently had with another woman.
What’s in his phone?
Even if your man has a password on his phone, you probably know it. Once you have it and he is asleep or otherwise not around, take a look through his texts for anything suspicious. Any overt sexual statements or texts to people you don’t know? Look for any contacts you don’t recognize, and the times of their calls. Do all the calls to a certain contact take place consistently when you’re not around? Do any of the calls correspond to times he told you he was busy? Be thorough, he may not have put his girl’s contact information under her real name-it could even be under a man’s name to hide the evidence.
Does he smell different?
Smelling another woman’s perfume on your man is the classic example of a way to find out he is cheating. While this is definitely a valid discovery, your man changing his own scent could also be a sign that he’s stepping out on you. Is he suddenly wearing a new cologne? Has he suddenly started wearing cologne when in the past he used to be the type that never wore it? All of these could be a sign that he is making himself smell better for his new beau.
Is he dressing different?
If a man is in a long term relationship, they may not take the time to look their best before going out. If your man used to go out in sweatpants or a hoodie and is suddenly wearing khakis and polo shirts, he may be dressing up for another woman.
Is he working out a lot?
When a man begins to sleep with a new woman, they want to make sure they look their best naked-which means lots of working out. If your man suddenly starts running or lifting weights a lot, and doesn’t talk about it with you (i.e. discuss his fitness gains or reasons he suddenly became interested in working out), he could be improving his body for another lady.
Is he spending more money?
Take a look through his bank statements; most credit cards state the place of purchase. Check for large purchases or purchases from restaurants and other entertainment places you don’t recognize. In addition, look for the dates of purchases you weren’t together for.
Check up on him on the Internet
It’s not only possible to check up on him – it’s easy. Take a look for your man’s profile on a dating site or two. This is especially important if you met him on a dating site, as it makes it more likely you will find evidence of his cheating (if there is any). Is there a reason he still has a profile other than trying to meet other women?
You can also run a quick and easy online background check to get to know lots of facts you may be ignoring about him to help you establish whether he is faithful to you or not.
This article is written by Julian westbrook a Writer and Editor. She always uses tools such as checkthem to check the background of any new person she intends to hire the services or to get into relation/contact with for her safety and that of her family.
